The Way We Choose Friends

This very general statement given by Graham Allenof their lives.The initial contact is made in certain
sums up very well some of the links to howsettings such as work, a sports or social club, but
friendships are formed. Most of the people who wethey only truly become friends when they start to
class as our friends are likeminded people sharing oneinteract with these same people outside of areas
or more common interests. Many would say thatwhere they initially met. People are consciously
people of the same social class are likeminded, mixchoosing their friends and choosing the kind of
and interact within the same social circles, performrelationships they have with them, whether they be
similar jobs, take their children to the same schools orvery open and share many details about their lives or
go to the same schools, colleges or universities, havequite closed and simply talk about the context which
common social interests and generally there is a largethey are friends about, e.g. parenthood and schooling
number of friends made with people who share theif they have met during their study.Are many our
same social class. Are these friendships madefriendships based on educational background? From
because of the same social class, or through thecompulsory education up to the end of high school
common features of that social classes living?we meet and make many friends, certainly not
Relationships are made through interaction andnecessarily all our friends, but at least some. At the
meeting of people and then they develop further intoage of six for example, it is our school mates other
friendships through similarities in their lives such asthan family and parental figures that you are
social class, similar personalities and common featuresspending most of your time with.