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Article #95: Manners-ism, How Etiquette may be the Next Avant-garde

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Where have all the manners gone? Three current political, intellectual and
things give rise to my query. First, the cultural debate. I'd like to think so,
failure of folks day by day to just say anyway. I'd like to think that, just as
thank you for an act of kindness or Malcolm Gladwell's The Tipping Point
generosity. Second, as reported in the ushered in an optimistic new way to think
New York Times recently, the dilapidated about change, we are ready for a brand
sportsmanship of more than the usual new territory where civility governs
handful of spoiled Olympic athletes who passion, where people are free to think
just can't grasp how they could lose or for themselves and where we actually
why bible-thick Omaha steaks aren't listen to and consider alternative points
steaming away on every streetcorner in of view. A non-left, non-right territory
Turin. For heroes like them. And third, capable of fresh ideas. Less emphasis on
the rancorous mooing between herds that being cool or on being righteous, those
is the picture of current cultural identical twins, and more on being
discourse. Did someone say fair interesting. See, good manners have a
mindedness? What purple critter are you? very pragmatic, even avant-garde
A left-wing pundit (could just as well potential. They open up fresh space for
have been a conservative one) recently new ideas, new ways of thinking. They
extolled the virtue of passion while usher in that most radical of
defending an instance of clearly barbaric subversives, optimism. If someone is
personal assault. We have a new it word, polite to you, you listen. Listening in
I suspect. Passion. A blanket turn invigorates and reshapes your own
exoneration of every kind of stupid, thoughts. If someone is shouting at you,
well, mooing. hey, you shout back in the same cliches
Shake hands. you alway use to shout back.
Back in ancient high school, that long Etiquette classes for all of us.
ago, I threw discus and shotput. Hated What a chimera, etiquette classes for
losing, loved to win. Of course we want young athletes. How about this, then.
our team to be the best, but isn't it Etiquette classes for all of us. And
also in our national interest to field a every five years, a refresher course.
team of competitors who are exemplary Airline pilots update their skills
offspring of that responsible freedom we regularly. Rough weather, emergency
herald as mankind's highest ideal? situations, drastic loss of altitude are
Athletes as fair and generous in spirit no less frequent in the skies of
as they are ruthless in competition? I'd day-to-day life and updating the social
send every athlete who wants to represent skills to navigate through them smoothly,
his or her country to a month of graciously may not be such a bad idea.
etiquette classes. This is how you Thank you.
shakes hands. This is when you shake Two words. One syllable each. We're not
hands. OK, maybe not the most dazzling talking elocutionary figure skating here.
form of athletic dexterity, but essential Simple, simple, simple. A handwritten
nonetheless. Make the penalty for rotten note, into the envelope, on goes a stamp
behaviour severe. and you have sent a huge bouquet of
The Tipping Territory. goodwill into the world. Better yet,
About passion, it's over, I think. At forget the stamp and just tuck it under
least as a euphemism for the simplistic your wife's coffee cup.
one-track thinking, or fundamentalism, of






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