Growing Optimistically

Spring is here at last! The season brings with it anboundless. Even for those of us who experienced
opportunity for continued personal growth, stimulateddifficult growing up days, we still have positive
by a sense of life renewing itself around us. We seememories often awakened by our senses this time
growth of every kind reflected in our environment inof the year.
the spring. Tiny seeds and bulbs blossom into colorfulIf you let yourself enjoy each new spring day by
arrays of yellow, purple, and pink flowers and plants"being there" rather than just "doing," then you can
and the grass becomes green. Suddenly one day wehave the joy of not only being in the moment but
look at the trees and see soft green leaves. Childrenalso of rekindling wonderful earlier memories.
seem to leap ahead in growth, outgrowing clothingIn terms of growing optimistically, it is often these
and changing shoe sizes. One day in the supermarketearlier memories that can serve as a jumping off
there are blueberries from central New Jersey, notpoint for your own positive growth. You might
flown in from California.remember how you felt roller-skating on a spring day.
For most of us, we find our senses heightened asPerhaps this memory was triggered by a walk you
warmer temperatures and refreshingly long dayshad yesterday. How can you recapture the
beckon us outdoors. Whether sitting outside on aexuberance and enthusiasm you felt roller-skating
bench, a porch, taking a walk or playing a sport, wemany, many years ago? Perhaps it is time to walk
become attuned to all the smells, sounds and sightsconsistently everyday. Perhaps it is time to buy a pair
that we associate with spring and the way ourof roller blades and learn to use them. Perhaps it is
bodies feel.time to develop another form of exercise, or maybe
Spring is a time for growing optimistically! A sense ofyou would rather have the pleasure of helping to
hope is in the air. Hardly a person does not respondteach a child or grandchild how to roller-skate. The
to positive feelings on certain spring days. We all talkways to reinvent your past into positive states of
about spring fever. If we look carefully at ourmind and body again and again are unique to you.
reactions, we can see that THE ENCHANTED SELF isDon't give up your opportunities to grow optimistically
at work. Outside, breathing the spring fresh air, it isin these glorious months,
easy to recall an earlier positive spring memory.My message to you is to honor yourself, to honor
Perhaps it is remembering yourself racing your bicycleyour memories and let them pleasure you as you
down a hill on a spring day, or coming homenavigate through the spring months. Try not to focus
exhausted and hungry after playing baseball. Maybeon the unpleasant aspects of earlier days. Look for
it's the exciting feeling of a crush in the sevenththe "positive" memory traces associated with a smell,
grade combined with smelling honeysuckle or lavendera taste, or an awareness that is rekindled by the
as you walked home together. The images areblossoming of spring.